There comes a situation whereby as a woman, you get to ask yourself the question, “what is wrong with my love life and what is wrong with all the men I get to date?” well in the above two in one question, the best answer is more often than not, “have you made an effort of finding the best dating advice for women?” which is more of a question than an answer. Below are some of the main tips among many, which you can observe and put into action in your current or next date
Communication should be two way
You should never be the one who always makes calls, texts or visits. Most men have a tendency of taking you for granted in such a case. Communication should be balanced and should be a two way traffic kind of thing in a relationship. When having a conversation, limit your yeses and your no’s based on a principled judgment.
How committed are you / is he?
As a woman of principle, you should observe with a keen third eye just how committed you and him are to the relationship. As much as you love your man so much, it is of great importance that you observe that you do not become over committed such that you dedicate all your efforts to them and the relationship. Do your own things, as far as you trust him since men are more interested in confident and somewhat independent women. On the other hand, check that you are not too busy for your man as this might affect his affection for you. When a man all over sudden starts becoming too busy for you and starts showing signs of other commitments, and making all lame excuses, you deserve better than that.
Men are different!
Understanding is one of the most important aspects in a relationship. It is important to understand that not all men are alike in terms of behavior, perception, ideologies, personality, reasoning, among other traits. The way you view, treat your man or connect with him is quite essential as it determines how well they will reciprocate the same in most cases. However, there are those types of men who will take you for granted no matter how much you pamper them or the efforts you make to impress them. This should be a runaway signal, especially if it goes on for a considerable duration of time.
Do not be all over your man in such a way that you assume that his entire world revolves around you. Some women make a mistake of demanding or expecting too much from their men. Unbeknown to them, this will give the man all the reasons to either cheat or seek an ‘asylum’ from elsewhere. Always limit your expectations when it comes to relationships and dating.
Especially on a first date, ensure that you do not overindulge in drinks, food, and even activities of the night. If you so much feel like letting lose, watching your funniest movie or engaging in your best hobby prior to the date would be fantastic.